Well-settled in the United States, Ela now seeks fulfillment and equality in her own life. She continues to share with us her struggles, and the opportunities she seeks out as she grows into a person who has a good understanding and admiration of her birth country as well as her adopted country. She cherishes her time with her daughter and son and learns a lot about the United States through their education and their progress into higher levels of studies.

Ela tells us about her relationship issues with her own family and that of her husband and how she tries to be sincere and honest with herself while doing so. While she pursued her passion for gender equality through Zonta International and met many like-minded women on one side, she describes how she felt isolated from people of the same culture as hers. She beautifully portrays how she blended the two cultures with joy and curiosity.